‘Absent Father, Angry Father’
Saturday, July 14th – 10-5pm
St Mary’s Church, Putney, London SW15
“The qualities of faith, hope and courage, enables an existential freedom to sore out of any darkness; this journey is richer then smooth sailing” William Fley
Vast amounts of research and many horrific statistics tell us that boys raised without fathers are more likely to drop out of school, more likely to develop addiction problems, more likely to be incarcerated and to have altered brain structure. Much of the psycho-analytic literature implies that the quality of the attachment is linked to maladaptive patterns or disturbances.
In this workshop we will have a rare opportunity to explore the legacy of ‘absent father, angry father’ on our psyche, and ways in which a better understanding and processing can illuminate both our internal process and raise hope and awareness through the forgiveness model.
We will use this confidential space to bring a deeper understanding of our fatherless childhood; whether it through abuse, rejection, or anger. We will explore how we embody violence, addiction, fault, toxic shame and anger, and how this keeps us from fully functioning and being fully integrated and intimate in our lives. Most importantly we will develop a compassionate way forward around this important issue.
Our programs have been unique and well received. Be part of history!
Comments from previous participants include:
“Being part of a black mindfulness group has been refreshing”
“Forgiveness could have a global impact”
“This is well-needed and well-timed”
- Learn about the forgiveness model and research into the impact of fatherlessness.
- Hear about and learn from real case studies.
- Gain better resilience, coping skills and support.
- Learn to practice the quality of forgiveness meditation for your father and ancestral lineage.
- Obtain a deeper understanding of the impact and effects of a fatherless upbringing.
- An opportunity to take part in a research questionnaire and a post interview.
- An opportunity to take part in a second closed men’s group, and a 3-day retreat.
10:00 Doors open. Coffee
10:15 Welcome, introductions, aims and objectives
10:45 Latest research
11:45 Coffee break
12:00 Forgiveness model and approach
12:30 ‘Facilitation of our narratives ’ (group process)
1:00 Lunch break
2:15 Silent meditation
2:30 Mindful movement & energy shifting.
3:00 Group discussion (1)
3:45 Coffee break
4:00 Group discussion (2)
4:30 Forgiveness meditation
5:00 Dedication & close.
5.00-5.30 Please stay for coffee
Please bring food to share, personal cushions/mats etc
Date: 14th July 18
Time: 10am – 5.00pm
Venue: St Mary’s Church, Putney, London SW15 Getting there
Fee: Individuals £90, BAATN Members £75, BAATN Student member £65
We welcome people from diverse backgrounds who want to learn and share the benefits of the forgiveness model & working with fatherlessness. Please note this is a non-political, non-religious organization and we apply the forgiveness model as a better response to trauma.
We also honour the space for dealing with issues relevant to the BAME communities, but welcome any members of the LGBT, disability, race and ethnicity communities. If you are struggling financially and would like to benefit from attending the workshop please inform us.
Please note some of our workshops will be closed to men only for the purpose of working with a deeper understating of the issues at hand.
This workshop gives you 6 hours of CPD, or 16 for the weekend retreat.
Dana: (to Give)
We are a not-for-profit. We also welcome any donation to fund this project.
Your support pays for rooms hires, transport, training, and funding participants.
William has developed, the mindfulness network for people of color, ‘Project MBBT’ and ‘Forgiveness Empowerment’ retreats, and has an MA in race, culture and ethnicity from Birkbeck College, where his dissertation researched ‘Higher Education and the Equality Act 2010’. This looked at the attainment gap in higher education. William has also taught at the University of Brighton and the University of London.
Qualified as an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist from Roehampton University, William initially worked in the NHS treating bereavement and trauma and working with victims of crime, before setting up a private practice. He moved to the New Forest in 2010, and is continuing his development at Breathworks and the Oxford Mindfulness Centre.