The Art of Loving, as a Verb

The Art of Loving, as a Verb

Inspired by To Have or to Be by Erich Fromm   We may wonder if our partner really loves us, but an equally meaningful inquiry is: Does our partner feel loved by us? It’s a tricky one because the answer may be that we don’t know. So, a part of this writing is to...
Rest is Resistance

Rest is Resistance

‘Artwork by unknown artist, National Museum of Contemporary Art, Athens, September 2021.   Power naps are my thing. But I am as conditioned by capitalism and its demands to produce as much as anyone, so it’s been something of a guilty pleasure. Until...
A possible ‘cure’ for racism – the place of psychoanalysis

A possible ‘cure’ for racism – the place of psychoanalysis

Having chosen a title that I feel some may find controversial and may raise curiosity amongst others, there is some pressure in delivering this. I have arrived at this premise from having published and offered talks and workshops on the traumas of racism. I am now...
How Do You Choose the Right Therapist?         GET SPACE For the Best Outcome

How Do You Choose the Right Therapist? GET SPACE For the Best Outcome

KEY POINTS Choosing a therapist is difficult Things to consider are how well matched you are, and whether they use the right techniques for you Do your goals, personalities and expectations align? Therapists more similar to us tend to work better for us, but this...
The physiology of safety

The physiology of safety

© This article was first published in Therapy Today, the journal of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) Download article     — Main Blog Home Page Search Blogs Search for: — Previous Blog Posts How Do You Choose the Right...
Third culture kids – identity crisis?

Third culture kids – identity crisis?

Third culture kids (TCK), a term coined by Dr Ruth Hill Useem, a sociologist in the 1960’s, are those who were raised in a culture other than their parents’ or the culture of their country of nationality. They have the sometimes difficult task of reconciling both...
Different shades of denial

Different shades of denial

Author:  Zeha Tembo I was a stubborn teenager, fact.  I remain what I prefer to describe as a strong-willed adult with firm opinions, take that as you may.  Whenever I shrugged my shoulders (which was often) – my way as a young person of saying, ‘how hard can it...

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